Peace of Mind

In order to get on with our lives, we can’t look back and regret the mistakes we’ve done and try to fix it back. We have to learn from it and try to be better in the future. Some say it’s easier to say than done, but that’s the only way to move on with our lives.

Women teaches men to be men, expose our weaknesses, and as a reflection of who we actually are. They tests our patience, critical of our movement, and provocative towards our judgment, but that is just how they are. We can’t change that nor try to mature them, but as a man, we have to adapt to it, and try to get the best out of what we have. The key word here is ‘try’. Always give your best, but not everything. When people say life’s not perfect, this is what they actually mean.

There are men who falls into the category of ‘the perfect gentleman’, in simple terms, a person who will always say ‘yes’ to women, no matter how bad the asking is. These people usually lacks principle, but very lovable among women.  The other category will be the not-so-gentleman type. These people are firm with their stands, mostly because they know what they’re talking about, and as a man, they know the responsibility of protecting his ‘property’. They don’t always agree with their other half, but once they do, the effect can be to great effect simply because the decision is strong. Some women see this as a threat to their ego. These men don’t have many women around them, but once they have it, they only plan for the best. Sadly, not all women can see that.

Love is part of life, it is NOT life. It teaches us, but it does not define us…